I cannot describe easily the kind of ideal relationship that I am imagining with my future lady, but I could perhaps do it via my imagined ‘ideal lady’ description. And, …. also by revealing some of my characteristics perhaps you would be able to put together an idea of me and construct my character. ! Are you ready now to read further! (Near] ideal lady: I would like to start by mentioning such traits as with undying devotion and faith, an inspiring soul, a friend, a fantastic wife and mother to our future kids; all in one, this is part of my ideal lady! You see it is nowhere near yet, that I have described my ideal lady. ! And, I continue to describe my idea of .... the 'Ideal' half......... umm... the other ... - she must be HONEST, HONEST, HONEST from the very beginning. - ....it would be just plain wonderful to meet a lady special in every sense!. In addition to the above, I would like to meet a level headed soul, with such attributes like a committed soul with zest and with clear direction in life; unbending when under pressure; interested and intelligent , affectionate, and totally devoted, humble at times. I would like my lady to be witty, charming, caring, warm, modern yet traditional; unbiased; culturally receptive, a very good human and individual. She should be very much aware not only of ‘imposed’ current lifestyle, and trends in the market place but also pressure coming from the 'outside' to determine or follow for the way we live and make choices! .. Choices in fashion, going out, career, holidaying or even watching TV programs, and also FINDING a Partner through the internet!.. . My lady enjoys food & cooking; outdoors more than night clubs and noisy and artificially created places. She is tidy, neat and clean; and .... physically; sporty, slender and feminine. In short, I would wish to find a lady who is principled and exact. I wish my lady to combine the traditional with modern in such a way that she is to be an example to others, not only in way she chooses to dress, also with her intellect; talks and responds and engage in conversation. I could be wayward sometimes, so if I step out of the line my lady corrects the situation!. WHAT I AM GOING TO SAY BELOW IS AN IMPORTANT ASPECT OF MY OUTLOOK and my mental make-up!. I am not possessive, but perhaps, I could become jealous if/when someone looks at my lady with a suggestive look for the way she dresses, that's it I am off the hook, I must sort out that person; I cannot accept this. Some people say they enjoy when other people look at or gaze at their wife. My future wife is not a commodity for others to enjoy her physical beauty. That does not mean that I would not trust my future lady. I am just stating this important aspect of my mentality to explain a bit more about my overall attitude to the husband –wife relationship. Therefore, I love my lady dress sensibly not showing a lot of flesh or curves!. I HOPE THIS IS NOT TOO MUCH TO EXPECT! I would like to say one more thing, - may be I am adding to many things, but I strongly believe it is necessary, what I wish to say here is this is this: I would love to have a thunderously romantic relationship with my future wife. This is not with just flowers and / or sort of be-seen-in-the-candle-light-dinners . My idea of romance is in the nature; it is in the morning, mid-day, in the afternoon, all evening; all night when it is raining, when the weather is windy, when the sky not necessarily in all clear blue, when the waves at sea are rough, and we watch it from a safe distance! . With my future wife, I wish to develop and experience a 'different’ type of romance; enjoying the marvels of the extreme forces of nature, like water falls, mountain tops. I could say the same for finding mutual enjoyment in exploring the layers of our own cultures and lifestyles and their hidden aspects; similarities and differences! And, through these, I would wish to develop such bonding with my future lady that will be forever and ever! Our lives are not without ups and downs. In such difficult times; these difficult times could be emotional, financial or social, as for my part, I would not loose my ‘cool’ under any circumstances and with two loving hearts together such difficult times can be easily overcome. I hope I have projected a near accurate picture of myself and I would like to think my description of me not only could touch the very heart of my elusive future love, but also it helps her to understand me from the onset!.!
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